Working with Spirit and being a Medium couldn’t have been further from my mind, or anything I would have imagined for myself…
My Journey with Spirit
Working with Spirit and being a Medium couldn’t have been further from my mind, or anything I would have imagined for myself, until approximately ten years ago (2016).
As a child, I grew up feeling afraid of everything. Afraid of the dark, afraid of being alone, afraid of anything marginally scary. Even the mere mention of ghosts or spirits would result in endless sleepless nights. There was no apparent reason for this. Nothing significant had happened that I can recall to make me feel this way. What I do remember clearly, however, was the constant eerie feeling that I was never truly alone — that I was always being watched.
In my early teenage years, my dad once asked me what it was I was so afraid of. I told him, quite simply, “Ghosts.”
His response was, “It’s not the dead you should be afraid of; it’s the living.”
Trust the nudge that brought you here.
Those words had a profound effect on me and somehow made the fear easier to carry. I’m not entirely sure why — perhaps it was simply because my dad had said so.
Despite this, the feeling of not being alone never truly left me, even into adulthood. Over time, I learned to live with it and to carry the underlying fear quietly in the background of my life.
Everything changed after my first ever spiritual reading. I had accompanied my sister one evening to visit a Medium, and during that sitting, she recognised something within me. She believed I was a Medium myself and that I had attended to assess whether she was genuine. To say this intensified my fear would be an understatement, and it prompted me to follow up on what she had shared with me.
A week later, I visited a local Spiritualist Centre and spoke with the Medium who ran it. I explained what had happened and the fear I was experiencing. She kindly invited me to visit her at home a few days later so we could speak one-to-one. I did so, accompanied by my sister and her friend.
That very day, under her guidance and instruction, I made my first conscious connection with Spirit, bringing information through from her mother-in-law, who was in Spirit. I joined her development circle the following week, and within six months, I stood on a stage in front of an audience of 100 people, giving my first public demonstration of Mediumship.
Through the teachings within the development circle, I quickly came to understand that there had never been anything to fear. I recognised that the presence I had felt around me all my life was Spirit, and that my sensitivity was clairsentience. Spirit had never intended to frighten me — that fear had been created by my own mind. In truth, Spirit had simply been watching over me, patiently waiting until I was ready to acknowledge them and communicate.
I have been communicating with Spirit ever since. I have read for hundreds of people, demonstrated Mediumship to large audiences, and educated others, all while continuing my own personal development.
Working with Spirit has taught me more than I ever imagined possible. I have grown beyond measure, and it has truly been one of the most profound and meaningful experiences of my life.
If my story resonates with you, please know you are not alone. Sensitivity to Spirit often begins quietly and can feel confusing or even frightening at first. With understanding, support, and gentle guidance, it can become a source of comfort, connection, and deep personal growth. It is my privilege to support others as they explore their own connection with Spirit, in a way that feels safe, grounded, and empowering.
Thank you for taking the time to read.
